Offering Luminaries A Place to Cultivate
Enjoy A Little Peace & Ease
While on Your Journey to Become
Who You are Meant to Be....
Often times life sends messages in a bottle. I sighted my glass shape bobbing up and down in the waves long before I ever had the opportunity to grab ahold. I would get a glimpse of it and then twist myself against the clear view and it would quickly disappear behind a wave- as if it was a ghost to my imagination.
I have spent years escaping the fact that I would have to read the message that would inform my journey eventually. I never waded out to take hold because I was certain that the message was going to ask me to give something up- something big.
Moreover, I was certain the words written would confirm that all the fault was in me. Offering little hope for change, avoidance was the cure. In a new bold move I decided to grab ahold of my message- this time it seemed like my only refuge. ---I was out of answers.
I have been seeking for a very long time to understand my deep desire to connect with people that were supportive kindred spirits. Questioning why I seemed to never find my kin.
Pleasantly surprised, the note simply confirmed what I have known all along. That by my choice- I had gathered people that are more connected to being appreciated by me, than to being a life giving, power centered friend.
In short, my friendships have been one-sided. It was now crystal clear that by my own choice to offer more than receive, this left me year after year feeling deeply and profoundly alone.
This past week-end Dr. Claire Zammit, Founder of Feminine Power, offered a webinar that cut to the middle of me- forcing me to look closely at my envy of the people I most respected, who had reciprocal energetic friendships.
Infused with clarity, I took a radical approach out of respect for my future self and I broke up with my friends. I let go of all the people that only offered opportunity for me to help them— my actions were quiet but swift.
Even with a slight bit of fear and guilt, I have a renewed sense of well-being. For the first time, not in anger or hoping that these relationships will finally change— I stand and honour the emptiness.
Honouring myself and recognizing that I have been under supported all this time- is liberating and scary. I will sit with this for a bit and continue to choose transformation. Then sometime in the near future- I have faith that I will share in the delight of my life full of new co-creative friends and expansive opportunities.
For now-- I no longer have a gaggle of friends. But this option is much better than feeling alone amidst a sea of people.
A Moment to Connect with Tranquility
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